The Dani Files

All of this election crap will be OVER! I cannot wait! I hate to say it but neither candidates seems to be promising but I am hoping whomever ends up as our new president will be able to prove me wrong.

Eh…. yes I voted, whom I voted for……. All I will say is there was a write in and I think there was only 1 vote for person whom I wrote in. Shit…….I just wanted the free Ben and Jerry’s ice cream and the Starbucks coffee for having voted. I think that’s a bribe enough don’t you think?!

I have a feeling our new president will be Obama Barack….. I’ve been monitoring things from my central location here in DaniLand and…. it’s by a LARGE margin thus far that Obama is winning. Don’t start throwing stones at me, I am just telling you what I am seeing/hearing. It’s not nice to shoot the messenger for delivering “up to date by the minute” information right?

Anyhoo….. I suppose tomorrow we’ll find out who wins.

Since yesterday was Halloween and all, I decided to take a short cut and allow Pizza Hut to cook for us. The kids were eating their dinner as they were strategizing the best way to ensure they fill up their trick or treat bags from the “Treat Trail"; which we were headed to within an hour of eating dinner.

They stopped their conversations abruptly to *listen* to the sounds coming from the kitchen. Curiosity was overwhelming them so they embarked a little investigation to see what was making *that* noise. Of course my son screams and takes a huge gigantic leap back and looks at me frantically and says:: “Mom……. there’s a BIG bug in the kitchen!!!!!! Go get your shoes and kill it!”

Needless to say, I grabbed a shoe and walked to the entrance of the kitchen and saw the famous “Big bug” as my son puts it. It’s a tiny Cricket. I looked back at my son and said:: “Randall they are not going to hurt you” as I proceeded to walk past it and it jumped out of my way. Randall was laughing and said:: “Oh… it’s more scared of you than I am of it right mom?!” I looked back and let out a chuckle and said:: “See son, nothing to worry about.” Merrnada proceeds close by and leans over and giggles as she says:: “HI Cricket! You’re now my new best friend foreverrrrrrrrrrr!”

Later on we all convened on the couch to relax and put up our feet AFTER we had gone to the “Treat Trail” thingie. Trudy my beautiful medium sized furry German Shepherd/Lab/Pit Mix canine found *Cricket* and snapped it with her mouth. My 4 year old Merranda looks at the dog in horror and picks up crickets lifeless body and approaches me.

As she looks at me with a tearful face; she says:: “Trudy killed CRICKET” as she holds it’s lifeless body in her hands and proceeds to scold the dog WITH the Cricket in her hand. I heard her distinctively say:: “You bad girl Trudy you killed my new best friend! *sobs* Now I have no one to chase or play with” at this point in her grief; Merranda tosses the cricket over her shoulder and comes to me crying. I swear I tried to contain it but I could not…… I let out a hearty laughter over the fact she tosses a lifeless best friend as she called it over her shoulder…..

My son of course still fearful of it, uses his Halloween sword prop to pick up the cricket with it; to give it a proper burial……… IN THE TRASH CAN.

Ah I suppose you just had to be there…. lol It’s always somewhat of a Comedy Central around here.

Be sure to have a safe Halloween, don’t tread into places where you do not think you should be…. (enter ghostly sounds here…..)

Here’s my costume for my Daniology.com fans – It’s not much but it’s something

Perplexity has set in DaniLand….. caution read at your own risk since I will not held accountable for any decaying brain cells after you fnished reading this blog.

On the subject of music:: I must admit that I am honestly glad that the cochlear implant has changed the way I hear music. Before I found and fell in love with Linkin Park’s tunes, I was listening to CRAP music – no offense to anybody but it was country music……. now with the implant……. H-O-L-Y CRAP it sounds so annoying….. I feel like a large chunk of my musical life has been reduced to nothing but a waste of time.

People often ask me, is it the music itself you are listening to or the words, I reply with the answer:: “music” - yes granted the lyrics or words as some folks call it DOES help but it’s purely the music behind it.

If you have ever seen the movie “August Rush", you’d know exactly what I am talking about. Music does the exact same thing for me, as if I am looking for something via music. I cannot stop listening to it……. because I feel as if though I am getting one step closer to the final piece of what I am supposed to find and listen to. It’s hard to explain and after having read that………. GREAT I sound like a flipping nut job……. Way to go Dani……… appease the masses by having them point at your blog and laugh uproariously………..rolls her eyes That’s ok I am laughing right with ya guys…….. lol

I’ve sort have been hitting a creative block as of lately but trying to keep pushing through it. I must confess it’s rather difficult to fight a block when your inner muse wants to scream leave me the hell alone! I think I have way too much going on in my think tank, I am presently worried about this and that and everything in between - trust me I have tried to relax, take a hot bubble bath and everything else that has the ability to relax you to help flow my creatibity juices but I find I am drawing a blank….. blah this sucks some major cajones if you ask me.

I need my inner tiger to come fourth and take charge. This is the most difficult part of being a pisces/aries. Piscesans are dreamers, Arieans are DO-ers. I am internally caught by a crossfire and I wonder if there’s something in the air with this too…… seems like it on account of a few things. Are all March 20th babies cursed? I wonder this when I notice my inner tiger is laying dormant.

I found this on the web a while back when I was trying to do some search for myself and figure out what March 20th - The day of the Labryinth means……… and came up with this::

Were You Born on a Cusp?

Individuals born on the cusp of Pisces (the twelfth and final Sign of the Zodiac) and Aries (the first Sign of the Zodiac) are ruled by both Mars and, dependent upon varying opinion regarding which Planet governs Pisces, either Neptune or Jupiter. The choice is that of the reader…perhaps whatever description appears to be more appropriate.

However, the general concensus in terms of governing Planets, is that this is a Neptune/Mars combination and the Jupiter/Mars variation is included below purely as a secondary reference based upon what is now considered to be a somewhat outmoded blend. In essence, the Neptune/Mars information is deemed to be the most accurate depiction of this cusp. Regardless, it should be noted that in terms of cuspian tendencies, it basically makes little or no difference which planet is eventually deemed to rule the sign of Pisces.

The Pisces/Aries cusp combination, also known as the Cusp of Rebirth, corresponds symbolically to the beginning of human life. This is a most favorable and desirable cusp, indicative of a union between intelligence and understanding. In essence, these cuspians are likely to possess strong mental powers coupled with the priceless gift of comprehension. The chief characteristics of this blend are vigilance and caution…each step carefully weighed prior to being taken.

The power of intuition inherent in these natives is truly quite remarkable and they rarely go amiss when they rely upon their own judgment as formulated by their intuition. There is an extremely keen and valuable foresight here in all matters of a financial nature and these subjects will work out in advance the most brilliant of schemes and projects which are then executed with total success. The minds of these cuspians are always busily engaged in devising plans for new enterprises and projects. Indeed, perhaps the novelty of a certain scheme holds the most attraction for the Mars/Neptune individual.

Natives of this combination are frequently considered to be the “Chameleons of the Zodiac,” being receptive to the needs of others while prone to be concerned with self and ego rather than the balance between people. Regardless, these people seldom fall into the category of being “loners.”

The somewhat passionate nature of this cusp may be misled if delusions surface regarding leadership or cause of these subjects. Impatience is very much in evidence as Water and Fire mix with difficulty and perform best only under pressure. Failure to emerge as a hero to a such a calling can result in depression and anger…even suicide.

There is a deep desperation in the pursuit of goals which is unparalleled in any other sign combination of the Zodiac and it is important for these individuals to nurture an alternative plan of action in order to discourage feelings of helplessness. Temperament fluctuates with this cusp and is often volatile.

A deep understanding of innermost motives and feelings is essential to those born of this blend in order for them to maintain any kind of relationship. These cuspians are sometimes regarded as elusive characters. They are thoughtful souls who often display incredible musical talent…yet, they are apt to want what they want when they want it. Those born of this blend may also be totally fascinated with dreams and dream interpretation.

These are people who play as hard as they work and find much enjoyment in athletic activities since participating in sports will provide a positive and healthy outlet for some of the inherent aggression and emotional stress. Both individual challenges (such as aerobics) and group challenges (such as football and soccer) are appreciated by these cuspians and they especially relish sports which bring them into contact with water…swimming and sailing, for example. These are exceedingly artistic souls who may excel at music and drama.

Usually direct in their approach to life, individuals governed by this cusp are inherently outspoken and can be either admired or misunderstood. Since this is considered to be a “primal cusp,” the natives are basic and elemental. However, although these subjects regard themselves as perceiving things in a simple manner, those who know them well often describe them as unrealistic dreamers who are unable to establish a firm grasp on the harsh realities of the world.

While outwardly displaying a dynamic and direct approach, the Pisces/Aries individual is frequently sensitive and emotionally complex…possibly even inwardly troubled. Thus, these are “doers” in addition to “dreamers,” possessing a rather “no-nonsense” attitude which may not tell the whole story. Misunderstandings regarding these cuspians are legion. For instance, this native may make a generous offer (of time or money perhaps) only to later be accused of acting “holier-than-thou” or behaving in a condescending fashion when the receipient of the gift feels resentful.

The result is that the Pisces/Aries individual becomes hurt and experiences feelings of bewilderment. In short, the more simply and directly these natives behave, the more others seem to misinterpret their true intentions.

In addition, the direct nature of this cuspian appears to inevitably arouse antagonism. However, this is something that others who are unwise enough to directly oppose the Pisces/Aries native will quickly come to regret. Additionally, due the inherent quickness in grasping concepts (and frequently in implementing their intuitive hunches), these cuspians may encounter resistance from those around them who move at a slower pace which, in turn, leads to displays of impatience from the Pisces/Aries individual.

Therefore, these natives must learn to curb their natural tendency toward impetuosity, learn to listen to the often helpful suggestions from another quarter, learn to slow down their tempo and synchronize with the rhythm of the group as a whole. Essentially, the Pisces/Aries subject needs to weigh alternatives with care prior to speaking or acting.

If this can be accomplished, then their logic may well prove to be remarkably persuasive and their thoughfulness quite compelling. Nevertheless, these cuspians generally refuse to change. They truly fail to see any fault in what they do since, in their personal view, they are acting courtesy of pure intentions. Eventually, this cusp combination is likely to get its own way…whether by relentlessly forging ahead or by simply holding out until the other party stands down.

In short, dealing with failure is particularly difficult for Pisces/Aries individuals. Outright failure is simply not in the vocabulary of these cuspians and, when confronted with unavoidable defeat, they are often baffled and completely bewildered. Nonetheless, the defense mechanism here is so superb that defeat is frequently masked by a refusal to recognize it as such. Although these natives are not so unrealistic as to mistake a losing situation with a winning one, they will often view losing as simply a partial setback on the road to victory…nothing more than a temporary postponement.

The key to successfully getting along with Pisces/Aries subjects is to not dig too deeply into their motives or urge them to explain themselves. It is also important to refrain from analyzing the personality here or even force them toward self-analysis. Those who can utilize example rather than precept when encouraging this native to be more objective will garner considerably larger success in that area.

It should be noted that this is not to say that Pisces/Aries cuspians cannot learn from their own mistakes but rather that they must, from time-to-time, be encouraged to do so. Of course, the simpler way to get along successfully with these natives is to just do what they say…at least for the moment in question. If a better idea can be formulated at a later date, then these cuspians will be prepared to listen.

However, this will rarely happen while they are caught up in their first burst of enthusiasm. Impulses, hunches and first actions are of paramount importance to these individuals and blunting or negating their intuition may well alienate them forever. That having been said, however, it is unlikely that any will ever succeed in breaking the spirit of the Pisces/Aries native or hinder the forward movement for very long.

With regard to relationships, individuals born of this blend are rarely led away by their passions. Indeed neither the males nor the females are particularly sensual. However, they are clean-minded and generally of admirable normal character, as well as being playful, devoted and somewhat romantic. These can be faithful partners, although the faithfulness may be more emotional than literal.

Love can be given both deeply and passionately…in short, the bestowing of much attention upon the love object…but these natives are not always monogamous. The intuitive and fiery aspect of this cusp will always be vulnerable to new and exciting prospects which suddenly appear and any partner may be expected to play the more stable and long-suffering role. However, in return, Pisces/Aries individuals themselves seldom demand monogamy from their mates and, in many cases, a relationship which is more open on both sides will suit them better…perhaps because it allays any guilt they might experience regarding their own indiscretions.

Women governed by this cusp are usually amiable and industrious souls, often inclined toward a single life and preferring to profit by the experience of others in matrimonial affairs. Conversely, the Pisces/Aries man is inclined to marry early in life.

The natural sensitivity of the Pisces/Aries combination makes for one of the most understanding characters of the Zodiac. There is the ability here to reach out to others more skillfully than most other cusp combinations and these natives find much satisfaction in aiding those around them to achieve full potential.

Natives born on the cusp of Pisces/Aries generally function better as parents than they did as children, feeling more loyalty toward and responsibility for their offspring than they did to their elders when they themselves were younger. A sense of family can have a somewhat surprisingly strong meaning for these highly independent cuspians but, in the larger sense, the definition of “family” here will usually also include friends and associates as well as “kith and kin.”

The most important lesson to be learned by the Pisces/Aries native is the benefit of patience and every effort should be made to curb the impetuous side of this subject’s nature. As with all cusp individuals, these cuspians tend to be attracted to others born on the cusp…particularly those who fall within the Libra/Scorpio and Taurus/Gemini combinations.

Personality Overview:: – Possess the dreaminess, active fantasy, quietude and sensitivity inherent in Pisces – – Possess the uncomplicated and fiery fowardness inherent in Aries – – Unusually direct in approach to life – – Outspoken…which can be both admired and misunderstood – – Refusal to be denied – – Personal belief that they can do no wrong – – Generally will not change for other people – – Both “dreamers” and “doers"– – Resent being analyzed – – Short on patience – – Extremely impetuous –

Then I decided after I found that to look up my Chinese Zodiac - The Tiger::

THE TIGER AS ACCORDING TO THE CHINESE ZODIAC::

Birth YEARS:: 1926, 1938, 1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998

“Born leader” is the key word for the Tigers. They are always in the lead and are most likely the ones to cry out “Let’s Go"! Noble and Fearless, Tigers are respected for their courage, even from those working against them. Tiger people are daring fighters, they are capable of standing up to the better end for what they think is right. Although they could be selfish from time to time in the little things, they are capable of great generosity. Tigers are unpredictable, always tense. and like to be in a hurry.

Tiger people are difficult to resist, for they are magnetic characters and their natural air of authority confers a certain prestige on them. They are tempestuous yet calm, warm-hearted yet fearsome, courageous in the face of danger yet yielding and soft in mysterious, unexpected places.

Tigers are very confident, perhaps too confident sometimes. Although they love adventures, and are addicted to excitement it is better not to challenge a Tiger’s confidence. They likes being obeyed and not the other way around.

Because Tigers are urgent people and always in a hurry to get things done right, they usually choose to operate alone. Tigers like to work, they are hard-working and dynamic. If you assign a task to a Tiger, the job will be undertaken and accomplished with enthusiasm and efficiency. Tigers make money, but they are not directly interested in money. Still, the Tiger needs not worry about money: just when he fears the money is gone, more seems to show up.

Tigers are sensitive, emotional. They are capable of great love, but they become too intense about it. They are also territorial and possessive, if you are a friend of a Tiger, he wants you to take his side against the bad guys and because the Tiger is so adorable, you often do. As lovers, Tigers are passionate and romantic, but the real challenge for the Tiger is to grasp the true meaning of moderation.

The Tiger, the living symbol of strength and power, generally inspires fear and respect. Tigers’ compelling dynamism, intense activity, independence and curiosity about others make them irresistible, persons of multiple charms; Tigers attract followers and admirers. The Tiger is courageous, active and self-assured, and makes an excellent leader and protector. However liberal-minded Tigers may be, they are passionate, rash, and resist the authority of others. Although they are selfish in the little things, they are capable of great generosity, even of altruism, in the larger. Tigers are men and women of action, thrust by destiny into the spotlight. Tigers are fearless creatures in as much as they blind themselves to dangers and impetuously rush in where more cautious individuals would fear to tred. Outspoken in the face of injustice, their strong humanitarian instincts will not allow them to pass by if they see a wrong perpetrated upon another.

Tigers tend to renounce confining traditional roles, opting for a more unfettered life. With a wide ranging mind, they can adopt any number of careers. Their many experiences serve to enrich their life and add depth to their nature. Material benefits matter little to them.

Tigers have an inborn magnetic personality that attracts people to them like bees to honey. Warm-hearted, sociable and friendly, they are characterised by their frank, honest and open approach. Their immense kindness and generosity will always shine through except when crossed or backed into a corner, for then they can become vehement and ferocious.

Solitude is often the price Tigers pay for their position of authority, but they become accustomed to it. Better still, they draw on the experience, gaining new energies and great strength.

Chinese say the life of a Tiger born at night will be less hectic than that of Tigers born after dawn and above all, those born around midday. It will be a stormy life full of dangers, but the Tiger will never be bored. Neither Night Tiger nor Day Tiger will have an easy life. The Western term for a particularly fierce woman is “dragon lady,” but the Chinese call her an “old tiger lady.” For this reason some Chinese avoid having children in the Tiger Year – for fear of having a daughter.

The lucky Tiger represents the greatest power on earth, and is the emblem of protection for human life. A Tiger in the house minimizes the Three Great Risks – thieves, fire, and evil spirits. If there are two Tigers in the house, however, one of them has to go!

The Sexy Tiger

Tigers make ardent and virile lovers who dominate their partners. Because of their sensuality, their impetuousness and love of adventure, there is an excitement that not only follows Tigers wherever they go, but also guarantees them a certain irrestible sexy allure. These creatures whose emotions are out-front have strong libidos and are lusty in their passions. Generally flirtatious, they are especially prone to wild flings in their early years but do settle down as they get older. When committed to a happy and fulfilling relationship, Tigers make loving and caring partners, warm-hearted and generous. They don’t, however, lose that romantic streak nor that exciting ability to surprise.

Encounters with the Horse and the Dragon will be especially interesting. Tigers will feel a definite affinity with the Rat and Boar but should avoid the Rabbit. Above all, beware of the Ox, who is stronger than the Tiger and will keep on attacking him until he is destroyed. If there is a Tiger and an Ox under the same roof the Tiger will have to quit before he is annihilated.

March is the month of the Tiger. The time of the Tiger is from 3:00 a.m. to 4:59 a.m.; their direction of orientation is east-northeast. The Tiger’s color is green.

Compatibility with other Chinese Zodiac Signs::

(1 - least compatible, 100 - most compatible)

Rat 65 - In order to success, both must endure. Ox 33 - Almost impossible to make it work. Tiger 52 - Two tigers?! Not recommended. Rabbit 46 - Difficult. Possible convenience marriage Dragon 76 - Despite minor difficulties, it’s good for marriage. Snake 69 - Difficult to see what they could see in each other. Horse 86 - Why not, they have lots in commons. Sheep 24 - One of the worst combinations. Monkey 81 - These two make eager loves. Rooster 55 - Not a balanced relationship. Dog 89 - Good! A balanced and harmonic relationship. Pig 79 - They are very different, but this will work.

Tiger Celebrities::

Queen Elizabeth II Marilyn Monroe Sun, Yet San C.A. Lindbergh Karl Marx Beethoven

And there you have it…….. told ya, a literal brainstorm perplex in my head….. lol

Enjoy – stay tuned, more to come……….

Man….he’s totally drool worthy, I need a friggin bucket now…. lol

MMMM This is probably the only one from the famous 80’s “Brat Pack” - besides Rob Lowe that STILL looks sizzling hot! Until Friday there’ll be 5 pictures of Robert Downey Junior or more….. *giggles*.

1. Did you just wake up?
Nope, been up since the asscrack of Dawn!

2. Who’s car were you in last?
Mine!

3. When is the next time you will kiss someone?
I always smooch on my kiddos…..

4. What color shirt are you wearing?
Grey

WTF happened to 5,6 and 7? Did they convene somewhere to party without #8?

8. Last movie you watched?
IRONMAN and it fuckin RAWKED! Robert Downey Jr. is smmmmmmmmmmmmmaaaaaaaaaaoooooooooooookinnnnnnnnn hot! *sizzles in her seat*

9. Last thing you ate?
Dinner last night, I am not hungry today…. lol

10. Last thing you drank?
HAZELNUT Coffee with a wee dab of Mocha!

11. Where did you sleep last night?
In my bed as usual, where else would I sleep?

13. Are you happy right now?
Contrary to what most folks think, I am blissfully happy.

14. What did you say last?
“OUCH!” After banging my knee into my desk from getting some more coffee.

15. Where is your phone?
Probably in the hands of my 13 year old, now if you ask where my cell phone is I have no clue, I lose that more than my keys. JUST MAYBE if I had somebody important and worthy to CALL ME or TEXT ME, I would have it on my persons ALL-THE-TIME.

16. What was the last museum you went to?
Smithsonian in Washington D.C.

17. What color are your eyes?
Green/Blue

19. How was your weekend?
Pretty good!

20. When was the last time you had your heart broken?
oh uhm…… eons and eons ago…. it’s still sittin on the shelf in it’s band-aided form collecting dust and cobwebs.

21. Who/what do you hate/dislike currently?
Uh ok let’s see I hate politics so I currently dislike the fact that it’s plastered everywhere… fuckers…They be trampling all over my world domination plans…. GRRRRR

22. What are you listening to?
Absolutely Nothing at the moment. White noises is all I hear because I am tuning out everything else. LOL

23. Are you excited?
hrm What should I be excited about?

24. What is your favorite store?
Old Navy

25. What day is it today?
Sunday

26. What were you doing at midnight last night?
Dreaming of Robert Downey Junior doing naugty things to me?

30. Are you left-handed?
Nope!

32. What’s for dinner tonight?
Not sure yet…. it’s debatable.

33. What is the last alcoholic beverage you had?
A Guinness with my mom and my cousins in Lawerence at that little Irish place…in AUGUST.

34. When is your birthday?
Well it is the last day of the Pisces Zodiac Calendar. You figure it out.

35. How tall are you?
5′ 7″

39. Where was the last place you went shopping?
Target.

40. Who made you laugh today?
No one yet……

41. Do you have any expensive jewelery?
Yes a few… I am thinking about hocking them though, I need the cash.

42. AIM or MSN?
Neither, they both suck, I prefer YM

43. Where do your cousins live?
All over, let’s start with WA, HI, CA, CO, NJ, DE, PA, KS…..to name a few.

47. Are you an only child or do you have siblings?
I have a sibling.

48. Would you consider yourself to be spoiled?
Hell no…… I never have experienced this thing called *spoiled*…… I need someone to teach me.

49. What was the first thing you thought when you woke up?
Jesus fuckin christ is it morning already…. damn just when my dream with Robert Downey Junior was going oh so good…….. fuck…. *staunters out of bed……*

50. Do you drink beer?
Guinness or anything dark – anything light such as Miller, Coors, Bud – EW tastes like piss!

52. Myspace or Facebook?
Myspace – abhor Facebook….. it sucks that they make you use your real name… dumbasses!

53. Do you have T-Mobile?
used to……. I still have the sidekick from them, any takers?? It’s gonna be selling for $150.00

54. What was your favorite subject in school?
English, Science and History.

55. Do you smile a lot?
Usually.

57. Do you have any talents?
Not Sure if I do……..

58. Have you ever been in a wedding?
As a bride yea but no more weddings for me until I know for sure this is it…..

59. Do you have any children?
I have three beautiful children.

60. Did you take a nap today?
No and I do not have the time to take one…. so fuck off!

61. Ever met someone famous?
Uhm yea…when I worked at Graceland, met quite a few.

63. Do you want to be famous one day?
Maybe…. it’d be nice.

64. Are you multitasking now?
Not at the moment.

68. Whats one of your favorite things to do?
Uhhhhhh listen to music

72. Ever been to Las Vegas?
No….. and I wanna go.

73. What are you doing today?
Absolutely nothing until I have to head out to Abilene.

74. Have you ever been gambling?
Yes, but I think it is a waste to gamble unless you are tryin to win the lottery LOL.

75. When is the last time you updated your blog?
Doing that right now as we speak….. damn!

76. Have you been to New York City?
how funny I was just discussing that with a friend this morning. I have never been to NYC but I would LOVE to go with SOMEBODY next summer!

77. Ever been to Disneyland/world?
No and what a rip off!

78. Do you have a favorite cartoon character?
Uh…..no.

79. Last thing you cooked?
Chicken smothered with Creamy Basil Sauce over noodles.

What happened to 80 and 81?

82. Last time you cried?
Wow….. been a long time.

83. Last time you were sick?
Today? LOL

84. What car do you drive?
Does this really matter? I mean think about it, I have three kids plus I have to travel alot, so you figure out what kinda car I have……*rolls her eyes*

85. Do you think anyone will comment on this?
Who knows, it would be nice to get some!